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A Little Snobbery
A few weeks ago a “friend” said something to me that was so shocking and painful. He called me an “elitist” and said “you think you’re better than other people“. Damn. My soul was crushed. For real.
I swear I was so stunned by what he said I just knew I misunderstood him. So, I got the dictionary and looked up the word elitist. Shit. I had it right. My understanding of elitist was on point. As I read the definition over and over again anger started to rise. “Clearly he does not know me,” I thought. “I am one of the most down to earth people ever created.”
So, I went to Facebook and posted “Today coworker called me elitist. He told me I thought I was better that other people“. I just knew that posting this to my circle of 551 best friends would garner support. Instead I got the following responses:
“And the problem with this is….?”
“You are an elitist. Be proud!”
WTF?????????
I was so confused. This is not a description I find flattering or complementary. I find it to be degrading and reprehensible. I am not an elitist. I do not think I’m better than anyone on this earth. I’m a good friend. I treat people as fairly and respectfully as I can. I walk around with a damn smile on my face as to show myself friendly. I open myself up to strangers and treat them as my closest friends. I am not an elitist.
I know it is ridiculous that I’m still holding on to that stupid statement my “friend” made after all these weeks. But I know who I am and I’m totally offended that he would make such harsh comments that were clearly intended to hurt me. Well, he succeeded. I’m hurt. I’m also angry because it seemed to be his honest and true opinion of me. I wonder why I ever considered him my friend. I’m also wondering why my Facebook friends would rally around such a comment as if it should be applauded. I AM NOT AN ELITIST!
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A Little Pomp, A Dash of Circumstance
Today, I did something that I never thought I’d do. I graduated with my Master’s Degree! Now, for some people, getting an advanced degree is no far stretch of their imagination. But for me, earning this degree is equal to flying solo around the world in a one-engine, single-propeller plane.
I’ve always loved learning. I’ve read and acquired so many books in my home it’s unreal. I am a history fanatic and can tell you almost anything you want to know about English Literature or American’s past. But school was never my thing. I hated being told what to learn and how to think. I wanted to work at my own pace and always challenged my teachers.
Needless to say, I was a teacher’s nightmare. And because of my independence and stubbornness, I didn’t fare too well in school.
But today, I proved to myself and to others that I can buckle down and get the job done. Georgia State University, you’ve been good to me! Now, about that Ph.D………
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My First Time
I’m still in DC and having a fabulous time. I’ve learned so much over the past 24 hours that my head is spinning. The speakers are awesome and the sessions are so very informative. I have pages and pages of notes. And I think I’ve aggravated my carpal tunnel from writing so quickly.
I’m relieved that my table talk discussion is done. This is my first time speaking at a conference…ever. I wasn’t at all nervous. Just a bit anxious. Our schedule was a few minutes off, and people spent a little extra time networking so for the first few minutes, my table was empty. Then came Lorraine to the rescue. She was the first one to arrive at my session and I was so very relieved. I had a table filled with attendees by the time my workshop started (it probably had something to do with me walking around with a sign begging people to join me)
I gave out a lot of information and everyone asked lots and lots of questions. We had fun. I really hope I taught the women something they didn’t know about vlogging. I can’t wait to see their videos.
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On Set: BET’s The Game
I’ve come full circle. Last year at this time, I was in Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport stalking Kelly Pitts from the ever popular TV series, The Game. This year, on my way to Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport, I make a quick stop to stalk those same actors from that very TV show. Check out my video….
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The Harlem Globetrotters are Coming!
The World Famous Harlem Globetrotters are coming BACK to Philips Arena on Saturday, March 17, 2012 at 7 PM!
You can save 25% off tickets when you buy early – click here: Enter “GLOBIE” as your password where it says “Globetrotters Presale” to get your discounted tickets before they go on sale to the general public.
My family had a chance to see the Globetrotters during their last visit to Atlanta and it was phenomenal. Check out my video about their show:
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The Phantom Stylist
My hair stylist sucks. She absolutely sucks. I’ve been going to her for over two years. I’m not sure why I continue to give her my money when her custom service is lacking. She’s consistently late for appointments and her character is questionable. I recall several times she’s arrived close to an hour late and offered no explanation OR apology.
The last time I visited her salon, she proceeded to ask me if I knew where she could get some birth control pills on the internet. WTF? As I said, her character is questionable. She’s a strange creature.
I must admit. I’m no easy client. I have very specific needs that must be met. I’m at the salon every single weekend getting my hair cut. And I often update my look with a new coat of color. So, while I have very specific needs, my freshly done hair is a walking advertisement for my stylist. I’m known to bring many, many referrals to a salon.
But on this particular day, I had an appointment for 11 am. I was in no rush to get to her because it was unexpectedly cold outside (which made me want to do nothing but stay in bed all day long). Besides, she’s always late for my appointments so I figured I wouldn’t stress myself by speeding down the highway trying to make it on time.
I arrived 10 minutes after my scheduled appointment time. I walk in and her station was dark, neat and empty. She was not there. Her coworkers told me she came in to work earlier that day but left a short time after. I went back to my car and waited….15 minutes later I crank up my vehicle and head down the streets of Stone Mountain in search of a new stylist.
For more on my sorry, inconsiderate, unprofessional hair stylist click here.
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Blogger Burn Out
I’m bored….with this blog. I’ve been feeling this way for a few months but scared to admit it to myself, and you. I don’t really know what to do or how to get out of this funk.
Lately, blogging has been a huge burden. I think of writing new post but I quickly change my mind because I’m just not motivated. I just don’t care.
This has become more than the usual writer’s block. Sometimes I get stuck on what I should write. Or I have a difficult time coming up with content for my blog. But this is more that a simple case of writer’s block.
I have lots of things I could write about, my crazy job, how much I miss my mom, reaching the finish line of grad school, etc. I just don’t want to write about any of it. Over the past few weeks I’ve had to force myself to log on to this blog to approve comments on older posts. It’s a struggle. I’m bored with it all.
Don’t get me wrong, I still enjoy visiting other blogs and reading as well as commenting on various posts. I’m just uninterested in MY blog. I’ve tried lots of different methods to rekindle my connection with social media. I’ve uploaded a different background and placed various new headers on this site. I’ve implemented my 30 days of blogging series which lasted for longer than sixty days. I’ve even tried stepping away from my blog for a few days just to gain a fresh perspective. But it hasn’t worked. I’m burnt out.
What should I do?
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My Blog, My Mouthpiece
I’m an introvert. Really, I am. Yes, when I’m in crowds of people who I know very well I act like a complete nut…Dancing, jumping up and down, screaming, laughing and drawing lots of attention to myself. But normally, I don’t like to be bothered.
I’d much rather be sitting in my house, alone, doing whatever I like. When I shop, I do it alone. When I go to a movie, I like to go alone. I don’t have dinner with friends because I have a hard time carrying a conversation. I don’t go visit people very often because I don’t necessarily like them visiting me. I’m definitely a loner.
I sometimes battle anxiety when I go to gatherings or events. I almost have to force myself to put on a happy face. Usually, I’m the one hanging back, sitting in the corner waiting for the night to be over. I really, really hate crowds of people. But I pretend to enjoy myself so I don’t make others uncomfortable.
A few weeks ago I attended a networking event. It was exciting and very informative. I met a few new people and had a chance to reconnect with others that I hadn’t seen in a long time. But most of my time was spent figuring out how to make my exit. I was anxious. I felt awkward. I didn’t want to talk to anyone. I felt exposed. I wanted to leave.
Next month, I’m going to Washington DC for the Blogalicious Conference. I’m nervous. This is my third year attending the conference and while I’m sure I’ll have a great time, my stomach turns when I think about the event.
See, I’m an introvert. Crowds make me nervous. I haven’t learned how to network. I don’t like talking to people. I’d much rather “talk” to my computer and let you read my conversations. I let my blog speak for me.
Do you enjoy large crowds of people or are you a loner? Are you good at networking? What advice can you give me? I need help!
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Resurrected, Like Lazarus
I am thrilled…overjoyed even. Today, after a complete month of agony, I am blogging from my very own PC, Petunia. My dear sweet Petunia had fallen ill a few weeks ago due to a very nasty virus that she caught. The virus almost took her out. In fact, it did take her out along with all of the pictures, documents, files, videos, etc. that were stored on her hard drive. My pink laptop had to visit the electronics hospital all the way in Kentucky, USA to get well. She’s much better now….100% back to normal.
I’m so happy to have her with me. It’s like I have a new computer. Well, I do have a new one…because the “geniuses” at the electronics hospital were unable to restore any of my files. So, I’m starting with a clean slate. And I’m OK with that. Admittedly, it took a few days of temper tantrums then sulking for a while to get over the loss of the files I had taken years to collect. But I’m OK now. I’m just happy to have “Tunie” back.
I’m not ashamed of the names that I’ve given my toys. Along with Petunia, the pink laptop, I have Bernie the BlackBerry and Kodi my new Kodak Playsport camera.(Not to mention my vehicle, Suzie 2- named after Suzie 1- who was totaled by Mr. Incredible in a car accident a few years ago).
Since I have Tunie back with me I’m gonna be a vlogging fool for the next couple of days. This month my YouTube channel has been dead. But now that my PC has been resurrected, I’m gonna vlog away. So go subscribe to my YouTube channel so you don’t miss out on my foolishness.
Do you have a nick name for your electronics? Has your computer ever crashed?
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A Note To My Readers
I realize that most of you read my posts and neglect to leave comments. I understand. I visit many blogs each day and only leave a comment on a few of them. But let me say from the bottom of my heart that I appreciate you.
In the past few months my traffic has skyrocketed. I’ve had thousands of visitors coming to my site each month since the beginning of the summer. That is surprising to me. But I’m thankful.
I thank you so much for logging on and reading the craziness that I write. Thank you so much for not judging my insanity, rather laughing at and relating to it.
When I started this blog years ago I had no idea what direction I wanted to take. I just needed to write. And I needed people to read what I wrote. After all this time I’m still not sure what direction I want to go with this blog. I’m kinda “directionless”. And that’s OK by me.
So again, thank you for hanging with me through my foolery. I promise, the madness will NOT stop!
*Shout out to my dad for giving me that cool blog sign. He’s the greatest.
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